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August 02, 2010

Bye bye



crossed eyes.

Eye surgery is scheduled for this Thursday, August 5th.

I guess it was inevitable. Surgery has been on the horizon for over a year since his first appointment. We're lucky we've put it off this long.

In other updates...

We've moved from University of Chicago to Children's Memorial. We made this move hoping that the spina bifida clinic would help to limit the number of trips we would have to make since many things are scheduled on one day. Unfortunately, this hasn't exactly been the case. I will say, however, that our first clinic went well-we loved all three doctors we saw-but getting new doctors always opens the doors to more tests, even if you send over your previous medical records. It would probably take me the rest of the night to type out everything we have done this summer, so I am going to try and condense it as much as possible.

Urology
A VCUG test showed that Nate still has reflux in his L kidney. The doctor was concerned that it doesn't seem to be getting better, even though we are cathing, and mentioned that down the road we may need to look into surgery.

He had a CMG or urodynamics test done to check the pressures in his bladder. He was a rock star through the whole process. His bladder filled to 280cc before he started "leaking". Still haven't met with urologist to follow up with this test yet (see Neuro below).

We are constantly having BM problems. It's either all or nothing, literally. We've had a couple bouts of 7, 8, 9, even 10 days with no BM. Lots of enemas, fruit, and miralax. Happy to report that as of today he's in the "all" category.

Ortho
We finally met with an orthopedic surgeon. We'd gone to Shriners once when he was about 9 months old but he was too young to really come to any conclusions. I was hoping that we could get scripts for RGOs and a wheel chair (although I'd heard that this was sometimes difficult to obtain-doctors aren't always on the same page as the parents) but thankfully, we loved our ortho and she was on the same page with us. Since that clinic visit, Nate has gotten new AFOs, been fitted for RGOs, is getting a lift in one shoe (due to his L hip being displaced, his L leg is about 3/4 inch shorter), and been fitted for a wheel chair. The wheel chair has probably brought me the most anxiety. Not because of the thought of my kid being in a wheel chair (I am honestly genuinely excited for Nate to be able to get around independently) but because we want to make sure we choose the right one. We still haven't technically decided, and we have a rep from the company bringing two different chairs by this week. I'll post updates/videos when we get the RGOs, walker and his chair in. BIG things happening in this department, though!

Neuro
Here's the long and short of it. Ortho found some significant curvature in Nate's spine (44%) and referred us to a spinal specialist. The spinal specialist believed the curvature could be related to tethering and referred us to our Neuro Surgeon. Our Neuro Surgeon wants Nate to have another MRI before we schedule another clinic appointment. We can't get his RGOs or meet with uro to follow up with his urodynamics test until we can make a clinic appointment. I am currently playing phone tag with the SB coordinator about scheduling an MRI. Sigh. And the saga continues. To read more about tethered cord, click here.

Sleep Study/Apnea
Nate also had another sleep study. He was soooooo good about it. He must think it's old news now, since this was his 4th one. Slept like a rock all night! The test showed that he is having bouts of central AND obstructive apneas. The good news is that the oxygen he is on seems to be keeping the episodes from being too severe. So, oxygen it is, indefinitely.

I think I've been avoiding writing this post for a long time. I like posting about the the fun family stuff and not dwelling on the medical stuff. However, if my mission is for this blog to be helpful to families who find themselves in our situation-I must also make it a point to post the medical side of things. This post was an overload, even just for me to type out, so I promise to sneak in a little bit at a time from now on.

Please pray that the surgery goes well Thursday. It's outpatient and should be quick, and although it's Nate's 5th surgery it never gets any easier to hand your baby over to someone who will take them to an OR.

10 comments:

  1. I do pray surgery goes well. The medical stuff can be so very tough - it's more fun to focus on the family events and accomplishments rather than the hard parts. I hope Nate does well and recovers quickly and all the other stuff is resolved with the best possible outcomes!

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  2. WOW... you seem SO organized!

    We'll be praying for an event-free, successful surgery.

    Karin.
    (from the HennHouse)

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  3. Hi, I found your blog through spina bifida kids. Good luck with surgery. I feel the same way about not wanting to focus on the medical stuff. It can be so depressing. The reality is that these children are happy and wonderful and there is much more to them than their long medical histories. I loved your attitude about the wheelchair. I feel the same way and really want other mothers to lose their fear of such wonderful mobility devices. A wheelchair means independence and freedom to our daughter. Anyway, good luck! Hope all goes well.

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  4. You guys are in my thoughts and prayers, Stephanie. You are so amazing...I can't even tell ya....God bless you.

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  5. We will be praying that all goes well on Thursday. Thank you for taking the time to share all of the medical stuff. I really put those posts off as long as possible as well, but I know it helps and then we all also have a better picture of what challenges we are facing. You have a lot on your plate right now. Sending you all positive thoughts.

    Nicole
    http://babygirlsummers.blogspot.com/

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  6. I really appreciated this post Stephanie - we are still "treading water" with Jet right now - no problems or surgeries since his shunt placement back in November - and to read all of the different doctors and tests (in a very organized way! :) ) makes the possibility of facing the same issues, or even different ones, in the future a little easier. I really feel like we've been blessed so far to avoid certain things that often seem inevitable - and while I know it's very likely we will I still worry and dread them - posts like this make it seem manageable. You've helped me today and I look at your sweet Nate and just feel more confident that we can handle whatever comes our way. :) Thank you so much - and we are praying all goes well on Thursday! Keep us updated!

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  7. Beautiful photo, as always, Stephanie, and I like the longer hair too! My prayers will be with Nate, your family, and his doctors on Thursday for a quick and successful surgery. Will I still see you Thursday night?

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  8. Thoughts and prayers being sent your way from upstate NY too. Its NEVER easy to face another surgery, no matter what. Thank you for sharing all the medical stuff, it helps me for sure see what others are going through too and seeing a lot of similarities. I know even trying to think of it all, organize it in your mind can be taxing but I know your helping more than just me out there for this one. Its great that you found an ortho thats wonderful and that you can be on the same page with too!!! All the best!!

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  9. Hi Stephanie,
    We have been through and are currently going through all the spine stuff with Nell. We just switched all her spinal care over to children's memorial as well. We will be seeing Dr. Sarwark for spine and Dr. Dias for hips. Nellie wears a TLSO brace when she is in sitting/standing positions (in the car, highchair, stander). Otherwise she keeps it off to move around. Her curve was around 40 degrees and about 6 months after using the brace and more active therapy, her curve went down to 15 degrees. We also just started hippotherapy and the therapist there said that it can help scoliosis dramatically. I'm very excited about it. Nellie seems to like it as well.
    Good luck with all that spine/curvature stuff. It's such a pain. :) Let me know if you have any questions or need recommendations. We've seen a total of 4 spine specialist in Chicago.
    Nate is so adorable! You guys are terrific parents.

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